Are you faced with the divorce process? Do you have a child (or more than one) with your soon-to-be former spouse?
If you find yourself in this situation, you know that you need to protect the best interests of your child at all times.
While this is easier said than done, there are steps that both parties can take to put this bad situation in the past as soon as possible.
First and foremost, it's important that both parties dedicate themselves to providing the child with a stable environment. Although things are changing, there is no excuse for overlooking the importance of this step.
Moving forward, you need to consider your two options for finishing off the divorce process:
In some cases, litigation is the only option that will work. This is when both parties have no interest in working things out on their own. As a result, they have no choice but to fight it out in court, waiting for the judge to make final decisions regarding their case and future arrangements.
Conversely, if you have children, you may want to consider the benefits of divorce mediation. This can take a lot of stress off of all parties involved, while also speeding things up. In the end, both partners, as well as the children, end up in a better place.
There are several goals associated with divorce mediation:
- To create an equitable agreement that suits the needs of both parties.
- To avoid the expense associated with litigation.
- To reduce the trauma and stress associated with divorce.
Along with the above, here's something else to remember: Divorce can help minimize hostility. As a result, both individuals will be more likely to get along in the future, thus making things better on the children.
Divorce mediation can only work if both people are on board with the idea.
Even if you agree to mediation, it doesn't mean that you're giving up your legal rights. You can still fight for what you want. You can still consult with an attorney to ensure that you're making good decisions.
As you learn more about the mediation process and benefits, you may find that it's best for you and your children. And there's nothing more important than that.